Domestic violence or often referred to as domestic violence often affects most household life throughout the world. Domestic violence often results from a lack of maturity of thought among family members or even the presence of a third person.
Usually forms of domestic violence occur such as blows, insults or insults, even sexual violence is not spared from domestic violence. But that does not mean that violence occurs because of it alone, violence that often occurs in families has many factors. For this reason, here are 5 factors that influence the occurrence of domestic violence (domestic violence)!
1. Insufficient financial life. No need to be rich, a reasonable partner should know how to respond to economic shortages by diligently communicating with their partners
Economic factors are one of the triggers of domestic violence, the reason being that the higher life needs are not in accordance with the income or needs achieved.
2. The presence of a third person left from the start. Instead of being prevented, there is a couple who are actually ‘wearing’ when they see signs of a household breakdown
This factor is also a thing that often makes households damaged and chaotic, this factor can also lead to domestic violence, there have been many cases of domestic violence in Indonesia that occurred because of infidelity.
Do not consider trivial cases of infidelity often with criminal acts, there are even cases that have occurred in Indonesia because cheating husband desperately kill his wife, therefore try never to have an affair in domestic relations, because of the fatal consequences.
3. Endless jealousy. Instead of loving her partner, blind jealousy will only be misleading without knowing the direction and purpose
If this one is certain you all know, jealousy is permissible but don’t be jealous of blindness, because being jealous of something that happens will make you act beyond your mind, infidelity and jealousy are 2 lovebirds who are always connected to destroy a relationship.
Therefore you must be more careful and you must be required to behave intelligently in responding to these 2 things to avoid domestic violence.
4. Unresolved revenge, until it ‘overflows’ when household splashes start
Well if this one factor is very detrimental to yourself and your loved ones, there are enough victims who have fallen because of revenge, this liver disease has a very bad effect on the owner.
In the teachings of religion it has been declared not good if humans hold a sense of revenge against someone because it can invite very intense hatred towards someone.
Therefore do not ever hold a grudge, besides you get sin, the nature of revenge is also not good for all of you, because it can damage your heart, if the heart is damaged the mind will be disturbed, if these two organs have been disturbed then your life will also be disturbed .
5. Increased intensity in consuming alcoholic beverages, illegal drugs and even sleeping pills
Not only destroying the body, consuming too much alcohol or sedative drugs has a significant influence on the occurrence of domestic violence. Unconsciously, every couple who has been ‘infected’ by these addictive substances will be more irritable and experience anxiety, thus leading to mistreatment of his own partner. Yeah, horrified!