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Domestic violence committed by one partner is closely related to his experience in the womb, at birth, and childhood. Domestic violence is usually triggered by poor communication, busyness, economic factors, and others. There are several ways to avoid domestic violence as written in the book Tips on Overcoming the Storm of Marriage Life

1. Join the course about understanding yourself
Before getting married, each partner should take a course about understanding themselves or finding one’s identity, so that they are free from the burdens of the past.

2. Don’t fight
In addition, the way to avoid domestic violence is not to fight or answer the actions of an angry couple. After the emotions subside, then speak calmly so that it can reduce the rising emotions.

3. Try to sleep well
Try to get a good night’s sleep so that self-healing occurs that changes the habit of seeing other people toward seeing the positive.

4. Don’t fight in front of children
If you have a problem, don’t fight in front of children. It’s best to do it in the bedroom, or outdoors.

5. Resolve the problem immediately
Learn to solve the problem that day so that you sleep without saving problems, but save understanding of the problem. Thus the problem does not continue to accumulate which can cause the couple to see no more objective and ultimately want to end the marriage with a divorce.… Read More

Domestic violence or often referred to as domestic violence often affects most household life throughout the world. Domestic violence often results from a lack of maturity of thought among family members or even the presence of a third person.
Usually forms of domestic violence occur such as blows, insults or insults, even sexual violence is not spared from domestic violence. But that does not mean that violence occurs because of it alone, violence that often occurs in families has many factors. For this reason, here are 5 factors that influence the occurrence of domestic violence

1. Insufficient financial life. No need to be rich, a reasonable partner should know how to respond to economic shortages by diligently communicating with their partners
Economic factors are one of the triggers of domestic violence, the reason being that the higher life needs are not in accordance with the income or needs achieved.

2. The presence of a third person left from the start. Instead of being prevented, there is a couple who are actually ‘wearing’ when they see signs of a household breakdown
This factor is also a thing that often makes households damaged and chaotic, this factor can also lead to domestic violence, there have been many cases of domestic violence in Indonesia that occurred because of infidelity.
Do not consider trivial cases of infidelity often with criminal acts, there are even cases that have occurred in Indonesia because cheating husband desperately kill his wife, therefore try never to have an affair … Read More